Deepstroke Milking. In whatever position the receiver assumes, the intention is the same; you want to cultivate the maximum amount of energy possible without ejaculating. To do this, frequently change up the stroke, change the speed of the stroke and firmness of your grip on the shaft, alternate attention given to the head, the shaft, and the balls. Mix this all up and create crazy sequences that keep the receiver guessing. Encourage him to breathe. Deeply. Guide him in visualizing drawing the energy in his cock and balls up his spine. Tell him to fill his heart with this energy. And then when you’re done tell him to use his powers for good.✌️
Deepstroke Demo with Release Around the world, spiritual traditions create elaborate temples to help seekers feel closer to God. One of the ways they do this is by appealing to the five senses. Incense for smell. Music for hearing. Stained glass windows and sculptures for sight. Tapestries and carved woodwork for touch. And fasting to increase the sense of taste. Imagine your body as a temple. Love and worship it. Bring in the five senses when masturbating or when connecting with someone else. Share and honor your body in ways that uplift and inspire.✌️
The Power of Connection. I brought these two men together to create content for you guys because I knew they would have good chemistry. Both have participated in my workshops, and both are grounded, self-aware, sexually awake men. Enjoy their give and take, the alternating power dynamics, and the slow deliberate ways they listen to each other’s bodies and respond to each other’s touch. Invite someone to sit across from you. Look in each other’s eyes. Breathe together. Stroke cocks together. Lean in when his body invites you toward him. Lean back when your body wants to be worshipped. Give in equal amounts to what you receive.✌️
Guided Meditation #1. Many of you have been requesting tips on meditation. This is the first in a series of simple, effective guided meditations I will be sharing.✌️
Deepstroke Demo with Ball Work. In Tantra, testicles are referred to as Dragon Pearls. Ancient cultures viewed dragons as symbols of high spiritual essence, wisdom and strength. Our testicles are part of our endocrine system; a system of glands throughout our body that support functions such as: energy regulation (adrenals), digestion (pancreas), immunity (thymus/thyroid), consciousness (pituitary/pineal), dudeness (testicles). Because our testicles are part of a system, by stimulating them we get the whole system revved up and humming. Yes, fellas, working your balls will increase your energy levels, improve digestion and immunity, elevate your consciousness, and make you even more of a stud than you already are. So gentle ball work not only feels amazing, it is also really good for you.✌️
Many have heard the Sanskrit word Dharma. It basically describes what we today would refer to as “our calling.” Our Dharma is that thing we do that we love deeply, are very good at, and (this is important) serves others.
Many spend their lives intellectually searching for their thing; their dharma. But while exploring, it is important to not just be listening to the mind, but also the body.
Our passion and purpose isn’t only in our heads. It is also in our hearts.
When we are in the presence of our Dharma we feel calm and confident. There is a sense of excitement and joy. We feel alive.
When we are in the presence of our Dharma there is a natural flow to life. We feel aligned and in our own lane. We come out of our head and lose track of time.
When we are in the presence of our Dharma we feel at home, no matter where we are or who we are with.
When we are in the presence of our Dharma we feel that our life has a consistency, and we begin to recognize the activities that ground us and make us feel safe and strong.
When we are in the presence of our Dharma we feel more confident in our own strengths. We are less likely to compare ourselves to others, or feel the need to compete with them. Rejections and criticism no longer feel like attacks, but important sources of information we can accept or reject depending on whether it helps us more forward.
Knowing our Dharma brings us peace and stability and progress.
Our passions are for us. Our purpose is for others. And when our passion becomes our purpose, it is said that miracles happen.
Follow your bliss, fellas. It is your soul’s way of leaving a trail of breadcrumbs to your Dharma.✌️
Deepstroke Solo Demo. I post these solo videos as an opportunity for you guys to learn the Deepstroke sequence by stroking along with the guy in the video; literally mirroring what he is doing. What many of you didn’t know (though some have guessed), I am off camera guiding the guy through the strokes. So while you guys are following him, he’s following me. We are all stroking together. Men have been doing this for thousands of years. There’s great power in a group of guys stroking and generating energy as a brotherhood of men. So you’re probably wondering how some have guessed that I was guiding the stroke sequence. Listen for my dog tags. They give me away.✌️
Post-Shoot Shower Power What I hear most often from guys that I work with is how quickly they recover post ejaculation. They are surprised how soon they are ready to go again (like the sexy guy in the shower). If you are in your twenties a short refractory period is a given. But if you’re not in your twenties it can sometimes take awhile before you can or even want to work it up again. The practice of Tantric Edging changes all this. Because while you are stroking (or someone else is stroking) your cock you are intentionally drawing the vibe being generated from your cock up your spine towards your heart and head, this helps to spread the energy. Instead of it becoming congested in your cock, it is distributed throughout your body. And then when you ejaculate you are only releasing the vibe that is gathered in the area of your hips. All of the rest of the energy you have built up remains in your body. You get to experience a cathartic release without releasing all of the energy from your session. You feel relieved and enlivened, but not drained. If you want your sex life to actually start to feed all other aspects of your life, this is the way to go, guys.✌️
Post Sunday Practice Selfie. The bookcase behind me is at my Yoga/Bodywork studio. I have at least five more bookcases full at home. I love books. When I walk into someone’s house one of the first things I do is check out their bookcases. You can learn a lot about someone from the books they read; especially the books they read before going to sleep. These are the books that bring them peace of mind and inspire them. Or they should be if they want to get a good night’s rest. Currently I have three books on my nightstand: “Lost Star of Myth and Time” by Walter Cruttenden, “Life after Death,” by Deepak Chopra, and “Circe,” by Madeline Miller. On my husband’s nightstand there is: “How to Live a Good Life,” by Massimo Pigliucci, and “Memoirs and Misinformation,” by Jim Carey. I was surprised when I looked because he usually has a sci-fi novel in the stack as well. Choose your before bed books wisely. They should inspire you, give you hope for humanity, and bring you peace.✌️ What are you currently reading, guys?
Deepstroke Demo: Edging vs. Tantric Edging I often get asked what is the difference between Tantric Edging and regular edging. From my perspective there are three key components that need to be present for edging to be elevated to Tantric Edging. First Key: Intention Most of the time when two dudes connect to edge, the intention, whether spoken or not, is to either get each other off, or one to get the other off. The intention underlying Tantric Edging is not focused on getting off, it is focused on tuning in and turning on and cultivating higher and higher levels of sexual/creative/life energy. Second Key: Technique Traditional edging usually just utilizes one, maybe two (if you’re lucky) different strokes. Our nervous system quickly adapts to the sensations of a repetitive stroke- like jacking. There’s nothing wrong with jacking- it feels awesome. But it also tends to be the stroke that gets guys off pretty quickly, which leaves no time to really cultivate the vibe we talked about in the first key. I developed the Deepstroke Sequence (a series of 12 strokes) in order to open guys minds to the idea that there are many more ways to stroke cock than just jacking. And by constantly changing up the stroke (every 5-10 seconds), the giver is keeping the receiver’s nervous system in a state of attention because of all the changing sensations. This facilitates edging by delaying reaching the point of no return and therefore way more vibe can be cultivated. Third Key: Contact In traditional edging the giver works the receiver’s cock until he is about to cum, and then it is suddenly hands off while the receiver is yanked back from the edge. After a few moments the jacking begins again. Very often the receiver is blindfolded. So he doesn’t know when and where on his body contact is going to resume. This is stressful to the nervous system. Each time the hand or hands suddenly land it is startling. Just like when giving a Tantric Massage you never break contact with the receiver. It is the same with Tantric Edging. Never break contact- either with his cock, chest/heart, or other part of his body. There is only one stroke in the Deepstroke Sequence that actually breaks contact (Catapult). But it is only for a moment and in that moment it is the receiver’s own cock that is actually making contact on the rebound.
Unlike traditional edging, Tantric Edging does not always result in ejaculation. The intention is to cultivate sexual/creative/life energy. Sometimes our body and mind need all of this we can generate. Listen to your own body. Listen to your partner’s body. If you ever have to force yourself to cum, that is your body’s way of telling you to keep that vibe. Get into the practice of not automatically overriding this very healthy, wise message.✌️
Foot Massage Demo. Several of you guys have been requesting this. The key to a good foot massage is to go slow and deep. Quick, superficial strokes will be ticklish to the receiver. A good foot massage requires trust from the receiver and mindfulness from the giver. So hold his foot firmly, sink in deep, and move very slowly. Observe his reactions. If he is clenching his teeth and tensing his body, you are tickling him. Respond by slowing down to the point of just sinking into individual spots and holding on each for a few breaths. Treat this as just another form of worship and the receiver will be able to relax into the reverence. Over time, when approached in this way, even the most ticklish receiver will be able to relax and enjoy some good foot love. Please give me feedback on this post, fellas. If you guys like it, I can create more.✌️
Deepstroke Demo with Release: The Energy Age Sri Yukteswar was a Yogi and a Vedic scholar from the 19th century. He brought to the West the concept of what is known as The Great Year. This philosophy teaches that time and human progress is cyclical, not linear. From our Darwinistic perspective we are thought to be as evolved as humanity has ever been, and everything that came before is considered less and less advanced and evolved. The Great Year teaches us that time and progress are cyclical and that there have been many Golden Ages and many Dark Ages in the past. We are talking way beyond recorded history. There are few material relics to prove this because of the great span of time. But the Pryamids and Stonehenge stand out as examples that go against the theory that cultures previous to ours had to be more primitive than ours. The Great Year spans 24,000 years. Imagine it as a clock face. Each Golden Age goes from 10-2. Each Dark Age from 5-7. We are currently at about 7:30. We have just entered the energy age. Think about all of the discoveries over the past 100 years relating to energy and this starts to make sense. I see it represented in my work. There are so many guys who lie down on my table and are so primed for energetic catharsis that I know I am only serving as the catalyst. They are already awake and aware of their own energy and of the energy they encounter with others. The more we begin to relate to one another from an energetic perspective, the more in we realize how much in common we all are. We really are all the same. This is the lesson humanity learns in this part of The Great Year. This is an exciting time to be alive, fellas.✌️
Yab Yum Variation with Cathartic Release. Yab Yum is a classic Tantric position. I practice Tantric Edging in this position a lot because of the inherent power of Yab Yum. Traditionally, this position is done with both participants seated facing each other with or without penetration. In this variation the receiver sits in the givers lap and then lies back. This gives the giver full access to the receiver’s cock. Even though the two of you aren’t face to face, you are deeply joined at each other’s Root Chakra. This facilitates an inner stillness and creates a very grounded, stable, and secure connection. We all need this kind of stillness and connection.✌️
Practice. I’m very hand centric when it comes to cock stroking and not usually into devices meant to simulate body parts like mouths, butts, or vaginas. I bought this Fleshlight years ago, used it a couple of times, wasn’t blown away (😜) so stuck it in a drawer at my studio and forgot about it. Last week I was organizing those drawers and there it was. I decided to give it another try, this time from a Tantric perspective. Instead of using it to jack my cock, I stabilize it with one or both hands on the edge of my massage table. Thrusting engages the muscles of the Perineum and activates the Root and Sacral Chakras. For every 50 thrusts I pause, inhale deeply and draw the vibe from my cock and balls up my spine. I fill up my heart and head with this vibe. I remain here drawing the energy up for 3-5 breaths, and then I engage in another 50 thrusts. I do about 6-8 cycles. Then I pull out without ejaculating. I go through the ritual of cleaning the lube off my cock and the inside of the Fleshlight. And then I put on a jock, roll out my mat, and do my Yoga practice. It is proving to be a very potent new routine.✌️
Sometimes the role of dad means a big bear hug from behind. Press the front of your heart into the back of your boy’s heart and hold him in a firm, supportive embrace.✌️
There is no goal other than to be present. Your presence is your most powerful gift. Be present in each moment, with yourself and with whoever is lying open and naked before you. Their trust is your invitation to service their cock. Call upon your practiced skills, your sexual energy fueled curiosities, and most importantly, your potent desire to worship at their altar.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Couple’s Coaching In this session we cover two strokes; Corkscrew and Hand-Over-Hand. Working with couples during the pandemic has been very satisfying. Single guys who live alone have definitely had a tough time due to the isolation. But many couples are struggling as well. Learning how to give each other a Tantric massage can be a great way to get creative with your sex life together. These days you can get a good massage table for under $250. Stronglite is a reliable brand. I own 10 of them at my studio. Giving and receiving a massage on a massage table as opposed to on a bed makes all the difference in the world. You just want to make sure the table height is adjusted correctly for each giver. If you stand next to the table with your arms hanging at your sides, the table should be adjusted to be the same height as your knuckles. Get sheets that you will use only for massage because they will become oil stained. Sheets with patterns tend to show the oil stains less than solid sheets. And use coconut or olive oil. We all still have a ways to go before life fully opens back up again. So wear your mask (preferably an n95). Practice physical distancing while in public. And practice your massage skills on your partner or stroke bud. Everyone needs touch. Now more than ever.✌️
When day comes, we step out of the shade aflame and unafraid. The new dawn blooms as we free it. For there is always light. If only we’re brave enough to see it. If only we’re brave enough to be it. -Amanda Gorman
These pics are from the archives from a shoot I did way back with Eric Raptosh.✌️
Deepstroke Demo with Cathartic Release. This beautiful cock belongs to a new Bodywork client. He came to me for his first Tantric massage and to experience his first time connecting with another man. He was deeply drawn to the power generated by two dudes physically connecting, and he was fascinated by the philosophy of masturbation as meditation. For some men who struggle with traditional meditation, the concept of masturbation as meditation can provide the breakthrough. While masturbating, each time your mind wanders, you simply bring it back to the sensations you are experiencing in your cock. Our mind is easily distracted, whether by thoughts of the future, or thoughts of the past, or external distractions (like the construction going on outside the studio during this session). The work of meditation is not about thoughts. The work of meditation is about awareness and returning to what we choose to focus it on. So the next time you are masturbating, either alone or with a buddy, each time you notice your mind wandering, bring it back to your cock or the cock you are stroking. Even if your mind wanders a thousand times, the power of meditation is in the act of returning.✌️
Coming soon. Filmed with this stunning man today. He was super kind, beautifully streamlined, and very creative. It was a pleasure to collaborate. Grabbed this shot for you guys in between scenes.✌️
Post-Practice Selfie. After the week we all endured and my teaching schedule starting up again, I made sure that I set aside some time today to put on my jock and roll out my mat. Self-care isn’t selfish. It is necessary in order to cope with the speed of life these days. If you don’t currently have a Yoga or meditation practice and cannot go to the gym right now because of the pandemic, go for a walk, or a hike. If you live someplace warm, swim. Or just march up and down the stairs in your house a dozen times a day. Be present as you are doing whatever you are doing. Connect your mind with your body. Allow yourself to be with the sensations, especially the uncomfortable ones. Feel the ache or the burn in your muscles. Know that it will not kill you so don’t distract yourself from it. And notice how by really noticing these feelings of discomfort with curiosity instead of fear, these sensations actually start to dissipate, and you begin to expand the outer boundaries of what you consider your edge. Self-care is how we continue to grow and evolve even when the world around us sometimes seems to be going in the opposite direction.✌️
Sonic Sexual Alignment. Sexual energy is the most powerful healing energy the body produces. It is generated in our Sacral Chakra, located deep inside our body at the level of our bush. The energies of consciousness, understanding, and transcendence are generated in our Crown Chakra, located at the top of our head. The Sonic Bowl I am playing resonates the B note; the same note that resonates with our Crown Chakra. By placing the Bowl so close to the Sacral Chakra it helps to combine the energies of the Crown and the Sacral Chakras transforming sexual energy into creative energy; the most powerful energy in the universe. Watch the receivers cock come alive and pulse with this immanent energy.✌️
I love it when you guys send me vids of yourself practicing to my content. Because even though we all can’t be together practicing these techniques and joining our energies in the same space, sharing your practice with other men interested in this work helps to create a sense of community and connection. Something we all need right now.✌️ This beautiful cock belongs to @theslimeking1 on Twitter.🔥
Deepstroke Demo: Hand-Over-Hand While exploring this stroke, keep in mind that you should employ a firmer grip on the way up and a slightly looser grip on the way down. No one likes the feeling of their cock being driven into the body. Work with this stroke for several minutes at a time, vary the speed, make it into a meditation. After a while the receiver will lose himself in the realm of the endless fuck.✌️ The beautiful cock in this demo belongs to @truckertwink He just started an OF. Give this boy some love and support. 💙
