Coming Soon. Worked with this beautiful boy today. While we were filming, a major wind/rain storm was blasting the windows of the studio. It was super cozy.✌️
2021-01-02 23:53:35 +0000 UTC View PostHere is a challenging New Year’s resolution practice that I learned from Stephen Levine. After everything that 2020 wrought, it feels like this is the perfect practice for this time. Here’s to 2021, fellas!✌️
2021-01-02 19:30:42 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Slowing Down
It’s the end of a very challenging year. For pretty much everyone. Give yourself some time and space to gracefully transition into 2021. This past year has brought so much change and at unprecedented speed. But we don’t want to race into the new year with the same mindset we have been operating under. The antidote is to gently pump the breaks and glide into the new year. To slow down. To slow down everything you do. Including the way you worship cock. Grab a buddy or grab yourself and see how slowly you can move through the Deepstroke Sequence. Linger on certain strokes. Give yourself permission to decelerate.✌️
Some brotherly love for Xmas and every other day of the year. I love you guys for your support and encouragement. Most of you have been with me for over a year (a lifetime in Onlyfans years). I know that this/our community on Onlyfans is very different than most others. By seeking to find the connections between sex and spirit we are seeking to grow and evolve as human beings. We try to hold each other, rather than hurt each other. We work to support unconditionally, respect empathetically, and when we compete it is in order to make each other better. This all comes down to love; love for each other, love for all creatures, love for the planet, our home in the universe, and most importantly love for ourselves. You guys are all beautiful and powerful. I hope you feel the love today and everyday.
Joel
💙🙏💙
Deepstroke Demo with Cathartic Release
William James once said, “Our normal waking consciousness is but one type of consciousness, while all about it, parted from it by the filmiest of screens, there lie other types of consciousness and we spend our entire lives not knowing of their existence.”
We are all here to awaken; to part the sheer curtains between this reality and the myriad of magnificent others. Our sexuality, when approached with respect and reverence becomes the portal to these other realities. Let your cock be your guide.✌️
Coming soon. Another beautiful session with
@afropxpi
This boy is a prince.
Give him some OF love.💙🔥💙
This was literally the very first Deepstroke shoot I attempted over two years ago. These two willing boys bravely volunteered. I gave them a crash course in what was evolving into the Deepstroke sequence. And then we just started filming. I love how slow and mindful the giver is with the strokes he remembers. And I also love how the receiver is holding onto the giver’s cock like he’s expecting a bumpy ride.✌️
2020-12-18 01:06:30 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Milking
Old school milking is the new black. Grab a bud and take turns on all fours. Remember, don’t pound each other’s cock, massage it, manipulate it, hold it, shake it, admire it. ✌️
Coming Soon. The Edge Lounge.✌️
2020-12-14 02:16:59 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Firestarter with Variations
Begin this stroke at the base of the receiver’s cock and friction your way up and down the shaft. You can vary the speed and pressure of the stroke. You can also change the hand movement from lateral to circular friction as demonstrated in the video. As the name of the stroke implies this is a good one to generate heat and energy in the Root and Sacral Chakras. Encourage the receiver to breath deeply and to visualize drawing the fire from this stroke up his spine to warm his heart and fill his head with light.✌️
With @truckertwink
Coming Soon. Connecting the Root and the Crown Chakras with Sonic Bowl B Note.✌️
2020-12-07 23:05:15 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo with Cathartic Release
Ever since launching this Onlyfans, guys who have taken my Tantric Bodywork workshop will request doing scenes together to demonstrate their newly learned skills. Yes, guys learn how to give an intelligent, therapeutic full body massage. And yes, they learn how to work cock in super creative ways. But the most powerful new skill most guys come away with is the appreciation for focused awareness when engaging with a partner. In this video watch how the giver adapts and adjusts to the feedback he is being given by the receiver. These two men had a beautiful connection even though they had barely met before our shoot. This commitment to moment by moment awareness is what made this connection so deep, so fast, and so beautiful to witness.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Nipple Play
“My nipples aren’t wired,” is usually the go-to statement from guys who feel little or no sensation in their nipples. As human beings our nervous systems are set up the same; everyone’s nipples have sensory receptors. It’s not a question of whether or not our nipples are wired, it’s a question of awareness. Many men when they first started masturbating associated nipple pleasure as something only women experienced. So they left their nipples out of their masturbation sessions. And then every partner this man had who reached for his nipples was told, “They’re not wired. So don’t bother.” So then each partner also ignored his nipples. All of this reinforces the false belief that nipple pleasure is for some, but not for all. When we bring our awareness to something it wakes it up; it literally brings it to life. Experiment with light, mindful touch on your own nipples and then find a buddy who thinks his aren’t wired and experiment on his. Breathing deeply fills your chest with prana (life energy), and touching lightly and in a variety of ways literally coaxes the nipples to life.
You’re welcome.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Storytime
Model on the Table- @afropxpi
Andrew Ramer, Keeper of Gay Tribal Wisdom tells this story:
“I’d like to tell you the story about the gay son of Adam and Eve. It says in Genesis that they had Cain and Abel, and then Seth and lots of other children. And their children spread out across the world, and one of them noticed that he was not quite the same as the others; he noticed that he was different.
So he looks around for someone like himself, but there is no one there...yet. He wanders alone, and in time a nephew is born to a sister and brother of his, who is also different. And eventually these two men find each other. The moment they look in each other’s eyes, they recognize something about each other that has no name yet, yet is perfectly understandable to both of them. It is about the soulful coming together of their bodies; it is about their bodies expressing something together that cannot be expressed any other way.
And so they go off, and they tell their story for the first time by living it. And we have been telling it ever since.” ✌️
Hello Fellas-
I wanted to express my gratitude to every one of you for supporting me this past year. Your trust and generosity has kept me and my studio afloat and has enabled me to continue to share the teachings about the intersection of sex and spirit.
Just as you have taken care of me, I encourage you to use this Thanksgiving to expand your radius of care. Be kind and generous with not just those close to you, but with everyone whose path you cross.
This is the Gayatri, the mantra of light. Take it in and let its ancient power fill you and illuminate your way forward.
Joel 💙✌️💙
Deepstroke Demo with Cathartic Release.
During Tantric Edging sessions I always encourage guys to use their voice. Sound is vibration and vibration is energy; the matrix of everything in the physical world. When we make sound we are generating energy, and by expressing ourselves we are helping to move that energy throughout our body. When being edged, by sharing the thoughts you would normally censor out of fear of embarrassment, you alert the dude who is edging you about the kind of job he is doing. Once he is in on this information he can adjust to be in better alignment with your body. You begin to vibe together and the energy begins to cycle between the two of you. This is what Tantric Edging is about; tapping into one another’s matrix and accessing one another’s power.✌️
Coming Soon, this dynamic duo.✌️
2020-11-19 22:44:03 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Glory Hole.
Ah, the power of sensory depravation and the entirety of your being centered in your cock.✌️
Deepstroke Edging Demo
This one is for all the aspiring edgers. Here are some tips for mastering edging.
Tip#1: When the guy you are stroking gets close, don’t let go of his cock. Maintain contact. Either grip his cock firmly on the shaft below the head, or change your stroke to Compression (demoed in previous posts).
Tip#2: When the guy you are stroking gets close pound his chest with your free hand. The impact is a surprise to his nervous system and helps take the attention off of his cock.
Tip#3: When the guy you are stroking gets close encourage him to take a deep breath and imagine drawing the energy from his cock up his spine to his heart and head. This helps to spread the building energy in his cock throughout the rest of his body. It is an internal release valve so the energy doesn’t become congested in his Root and Sacral Chakras.
Tip#4: When the guy you are stroking gets close combine the first three tips at the same time. You will help him immediately plateau.
Remember, Tantric Edging is a team sport. It requires mindfulness and good communication from the guy being edged. And it requires focus and skill from the edger.
Now, grab a bud, or grab your own cock and give these tips a try.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Double-Handed Twist
Stroking cock should be so much more than just jacking. As men, our cock is the center of our masculinity. It is one of the main generators of sexual energy/creative energy/life energy. Our cock is of great importance to our life and vitality. When we stroke it we should view it as an act of worship.🙏
I had the privilege of collaborating with @afropxpi for this post. He is a prince. Give him some love, fellas.✌️
Deepstroke Demo with release. Because who doesn’t need some stress relief right about now? Dig the new groovy backdrop, guys.✌️
With @outsideindoors
The Natural Tranquilizer: 4-7-8 Breathing
With everyone on edge right now, I wanted to share a breathing practice that chills out your nervous system, and slows down your respiration and heart rate. This is a good one to employ whenever you cannot sleep, or whenever you feel frustrated or fearful.
It’s a simple practice:
Breathe in through your nose for a mental count of 4.
Hold your breath for a mental count of 7.
Exhale through your mouth for a mental count of 8.
Repeat the cycle 4 times.
Stay grounded. Stay strong. And breathe.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Couple’s Coaching
Since the pandemic has made it unsafe to host large group Tantric Bodywork events, I have shifted to one on one and couple’s coaching sessions. In these sessions we warm up with some jockstrap Yoga. Then each partner takes a turn on the table. Here is our first shot at filming some of these sessions. Looking forward to sharing more of these with you guys.✌️
Audition pictures like this always inspire me. When photographing your own cock, or someone else’s, make it beautiful. Be mindful of the background and lighting. It’s a cock you are displaying, the center of a man’s masculinity. Just as you would worship it with your hands, worship it with your eyes and creativity. Elevate it to art. Cocks deserve this.✌️
With @truckertwink
Deepstroke Demo: Solo
Here is a beautiful, slow solo demo celebrating the importance of loving oneself. To love oneself is not selfish, it is of utmost importance. If we don’t cultivate practices of self-love, we find it very difficult to love or feel compassion for others. And right now, with tensions as high as they are, being able to walk in another’s shoes is the only way forward on the path toward healing.✌️
When the dude on your massage table loves to nurse pecs you accept the service and bond.✌️
2020-10-23 22:07:13 +0000 UTC View Post
Coming Soon. The Deepstroke Glory Hole.✌️
2020-10-21 16:00:35 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Power Stroking
You don’t need a massage table for this position. But it certainly helps. You can also explore this standing, knees bent, feet wide, gripping hands, and leaning back supporting each other with your own body weight. It’s a powerful position to stroke. Grab a bud and try it out.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Corkscrew Meditation
Sometimes just slowly repeat one stroke alternating between hands for extended periods of time. This creates a calm in the dude receiving because his nervous adapts to the stroke and relaxes as it realizes there will be no sudden surprises. And from the perspective of the giver the slow repetition of a single stroke becomes a profound and powerful meditation on worshipping cock.✌️
With @truckertwink