Deepstroke Demo: Solo Eduction Eduction is a more generous manifestation of seduction. When we educe, we draw out our own or someone else’s desire. We slow things down. We let go of what we want for someone else’s body or our own and allow things to unfold in their own time and in their own way. Seduction is usually about having things our way. When we educe, we listen to the body. Here is a new Deepstroke sequence I have been practicing. You slowly cycle through the following strokes: Underhand Hand-Over-Hand, Overhand Hand-Over-Hand, Slapping, Firestarter, repeat. Get a rhythm going. Let your whole body move with the strokes. Educe yourself. ✌️ Intensity Level: Let your body decide.
We are all wired the same way. As human beings our nervous systems follow very similar paths. So for guys who say they get no enjoyment from their nipples, I say this isn’t because their nipples aren’t “wired.” It is simply because they haven’t brought awareness to their nipples. For some guys, when they first began masturbating, they thought of nipples as something only women derived pleasure from. So they focused their attention on their cock and ignored their nipples. And then each sex partner they had they told them they had nothing going on in their nipples. So each partner also ignored their nipples. If you’re one of those guys (like the guy in this video...was) who thinks his nipples aren’t wired, all it takes is bringing attention to them to wake them up. Some light, intentional touch every day is all they need. Our attention is our most powerful agent of change, whether in our relationships, meditations, conversations, or parts of ourselves we have for too long ignored. ✌️
Hey there, guys....I just wanted to express a deep well of gratitude for your support as we all navigate this challenging time together. Your love and encouragement to continue to grow and share this work has kept me inspired. Be safe and stay healthy. Love yourself more. Joel✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Solo, Soft, and Strong The message we get from the way sex is represented in the media is that guys need to be hard every moment during sex. This is a misrepresentation of reality. Erections come and go. That’s reality. During my workshops I encourage guys to work on not giving in to this pressure to always be hard. The Deepstroke sequence is just as effective and feels just as good whether you are soft or hard. We all struggle with this and falsely judge ourselves to be weak and broken when we are not hard when we think we should be. When we are soft our cock should be embraced, not shamed. Being soft and confidant at the same time is a sign of great strength. A good mantra to practice this dichotomy is, “I am soft and I am strong.” ✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Hand-Over-Hand This is a pretty straight up stroke. A couple of things to consider to do it well: If the cock you are working on isn’t hard, only go in one direction- up. If the cock you are working on is hard, go in both directions- up and down. Firm grip on the Hand-Over-Hand up. Slightly looser grip on the Hand-Over-Hand down. This is a great transition stroke to insert frequently between different strokes. It is a key stroke in making your sequencing of strokes seamless and smooth. ✌️ Intensity Level- 🚀🚀🚀
Because at this point everyone needs some release. Your cock is a huge source of power and comfort in these strange times. Worship your cock. Every day. And be a solid example of how a compassionate, open-hearted human being treats others and themselves. Be safe and stay healthy, guys. ✌️
I hope everyone is safe and staying healthy. In order to help flatten the curve I have moved all of my work online and am available for one on one Tantra coaching. These sessions are secure and private (you get a personal Zoom password, and then once we are both on I lock the room so no one else has access). In these sessions we cover: Breathwork/meditation to ground and focus. Toning/Chanting to balance and open the central channel. Cock reflexology to awaken energy. A Taoist cock stroke sequence to facilitate edging and cultivate sexual/creative vibe. And for those into nipple play, I teach a very powerful nipple play/heart opener sequence. If you are interested, or have questions, DM me. Men’s Bodywork workshops and Tantra events will resume sometime this summer. And here I am showing off the new gear we will all be sporting. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Freestyle Lite Usually during workshops guys start off kind of tentatively working each other’s cocks as they learn the Deepstrokes. I’m very often reminding them that this is a dude they are working on, be a little more aggressive, their cock won’t break. But there is a balance to find between going agro and a little rough, and being gentle and softly intentional. I dig the way this dude approaches the Deepstrokes. It is a good example of quietly worshipping cock. This is also a good approach to employ if your partner tends to cum quickly. You’re not touching his cock any less, you’re just turning down the volume of each stroke. Intensity Level- 🚀🚀
Hey Guys...during this time of isolation my men’s Yoga classes and workshops have been put on hold in order to help flatten the curve. But last week I began offering online Tantra coaching sessions to help support guys in dealing with our current reality. My private Tantra coaching sessions are an hour. These can be one on one, couples, or small groups. For supporters of my Onlyfans the fee is only $100. We connect on Zoom. In these sessions we cover: Breathwork/meditation to ground and focus. Toning/Chanting to balance and open the central channel. Cock reflexology to awaken energy. And a Taoist cock stroke sequence to facilitate edging and cultivate sexual/creative vibe.
For more information and to set up a session, DM me. Be safe and stay healthy. Joel✌️
Seated Nipple Play Demo. Includes Palming, Flicking, and Knuckling. Watch for each. In between loving on the dude’s nipples, massage his pecs. Knead them and grab them firmly. In my workshops, I always remind guys, “You’re working on a dude. Be mindfully aggressive. He won’t break.” ✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Milking Our nervous system has an amazing tool called “proprioception.” This is what gives us the ability to know where our body parts are in space in relationship to one another. It’s why standing on our head can literally change our perspective. It is our nervous system recognizing that things are different and trying to make sense of it. The same rules apply to cock work within the context of a Tantric Bodywork session. Most cock work takes place with the receiver supine on the table- lying on their back. But by changing it up; by working their cock between their legs when they are still prone- lying on their belly, or having them on their hands and knees and milking their cock, changes things up and keeps our nervous system alert and aware. Keep the strokes super simple and slow in this position. Listen very closely to the receiver’s level of arousal. The power of this one sneaks up on you. ✌️ Intensity Level- 🚀🚀🚀🚀
Deepstroke Demo: Corkscrew It is important to support the base of the cock with one hand while corkscrewing up the shaft with the other. At even intervals change hands. These intervals can be long and consist of many corkscrews before changing hands, or they can be short, consisting of just one or two strokes. Play with different speeds, rhythms, and firmness of grip. This one is always a crowd pleaser. ✌️ Intensity Level- 🚀🚀🚀🚀
Unlike the way Edging is usually represented in social media, Tantric Edging is not about control or t0rture. It is about connecting and technique. Connection comes from being present and enjoying the pleasure you are giving as much as your partner is from receiving. Technique comes from practice; from elevating cock stroking to an art that incorporates skill and creativity. Approach cock worship from this place and the sky opens up and it starts raining unicorns. ✌️
Hey guys, here is the next installment of self-care during the scare. End your shower with cold. This is great for our circulatory system. It causes all of our veins and arteries to vasoconstrict, and then when the cold water is turned off, they vasodialate. Meaning our vessels contract and then relax. You are basically taking them through a workout. During this pandemic, you want to keep all systems of your body strong and healthy in order to protect you from the virus, or to help you get through it if you catch it. So before you turn the water off, turn it to its coldest setting and let it wash over you for about 30 seconds. I usually do three slow turns in one direction, then three in the other direction. If you need to yell to get through it, let it rip. This practice will make you hardy. And right now the human race could use some good, old fashioned hardiness. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo with Release. Role playing has the potential to be a very powerful spiritual practice. It contains the emotional seeds to open our heart and mind. Take submissive and dominant as an example. Assuming the role of sub gives us the opportunity to experience vulnerability. Taking the role of dominance awakens the nurturer in us. There is equal power in both of these roles. The vulnerable need nurturing, and nurturer’s need someone to take care of. Each feeds the other. Case in point; anyone who calls me “sir” gets the royal treatment. See how that works? ✌️
Demo: Un-Even Push-Ups Can Yoga build a strong chest? Anyone who comes to my men’s classes knows the answer to this question is, absolutely. Over a series of demos I’m going to teach you guys the many different push-up variations you can incorporate into your time on the mat. Up next are Un-Even Push-Ups. Set your blocks one at the middle height and one at the highest height at the top of your mat on your mat. Come into Plank with your hands on your blocks. Set your Plank. Meaning, push down into your hands without locking your elbows, push up between your shoulder blades (no valley between your shoulder blades), tuck your tailbone and push up into the back of your knees. Setting Plank ensures your whole body moves through the Push-Ups as a stable unit. As you inhale, slowly lower down. Your chest dips down to the height of or just below the surface of the high block. Exhale and press back up. Once up, change the height of each block. Inhale and slowly lower down. Exhale and press back up and then change the height of each block. Maintain your Plank throughout. Un-Even Push-Ups hit the Pecs, Deltoids, and Triceps from a multitude of angles, and help to build well-balanced muscles. Un-Even Push-Ups can be inserted into any Yoga sequence. A good place is usually right before lowering all the way down into Cobra or some other prone backbend. One thing to consider is to never lower all the way to your mat with your hands still on the blocks. This can create stress on the shoulder joints. When you finish a couple of rounds of Un-Even Push-Ups press up into Dog, set the blocks wider than your mat so you can bring your hands to your mat, then shift forward into Plank and lower all the way down for your backbend. Give this a try. Start building a big chest so there’s more room for a big heart! 💙✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Big Slide This one is like the upstroke of jacking. The key is to draw the cock (yours or a buds) toward the feet as you slide up the shaft, and then release allowing the cock to rebound. There is a great deal of power in the rebound and most dudes get super hard during this stroke. It’s also just fun watching a cock go boing! ✌️
One of the most powerful aspects of this position is the heart to heart connection. Most only consider face to face as a position to align hearts between two partners. But the front of one heart and the back of the other heart is also highly charged. Our hearts are three dimensional. They don’t only exist in the front of our body. To access the back of your heart on your own breathe deeply into the back of your rib cage. Enjoy the sensation of expansion this focus helps to create. In this period of isolation due to the pandemic, opening our heart in all directions becomes a keystone practice for staying healthy and feeling human. ✌️
Hey guys, this is the first installment in a series of self-care videos to help everyone stay healthy as we all navigate the pandemic.
The Thymus Gland is located beneath the Sternum and in front of the heart. It is a key component of our immune system and is responsible for the development and training of a very important type of white cell called T-cells. T-cells protect the body from bacteria and virus’s. This is why it is so important to stimulate this gland daily, especially now.
Many indigeneous cultures around world recognize the importance of the Thymus for our health and vitality. When they wake up each day one of the first things they do every morning is pound their chest in order to stimulate this gland.
Here are two examples of the kind of Thymus Thumping I teach in my workshops. Both involve sound. The reason making sound helps the practice is because then you are not only creating vibration on the outside by pounding your chest, you are also creating vibration on the inside to stimulate the Thymus by making sound.
In the demo, the first example involves simple humming while pounding. The second example involves toning the sacred vowels: OH, AH, AY, OOO, EEE, OH
Even though the Thymus is most active in our youth, its energy continues to be a very powerful force throughout our life.
So each morning, put on your loincloth and enjoy about a minute of pounding your chest like Tarzan. Then go swing from the trees. Six feet apart. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Double Grip Deep Thrusting. This is the stroke that we finish with at our workshops. It’s a great stroke to use to conclude a Deepstroke home sesh as well. The giver interlaces their fingers around the receiver’s hard cock, slides up the shaft so that just the head of the cock is in their hands, and then locks their arms so their hands stay in place at this height. The receiver begins to thrust up into the giver’s hands. The giver modifies the firmness of the grip so that it is open enough to allow the receiver’s cock to easily slide through, but also tight enough to provide a good amount of friction. The receiver is the one controlling the intensity of this stroke. You can vary the speed and depth of the thrust. For the giver, the key is to keep your hands stable; lock your elbows at 90 degrees and press them into your sides. Imagine the scene at our workshops of an entire room full of guys practicing this stroke. Masculine power overload. ✌️ Intensity Level: 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀
Demo: Side-to-Sides Can Yoga build a strong chest? Anyone who comes to my classes knows the answer to this question is, absolutely. Over a series of demos I’m going to teach you guys the many different push-up variations you can incorporate into your time on the mat. Side-to-Sides are the second installment in this series. Set your blocks at their middle height at the top of your mat wider than your mat. Come into Plank with your hands on your blocks. Set your Plank. Meaning, push down into your hands without locking your elbows, push up between your shoulder blades (no valley between your shoulder blades), tuck your tailbone and push up into the back of your knees. Setting Plank ensures your whole body moves through the Side-to-Sides as a stable unit. As you inhale, slowly lower down. Your chest dips down to the height of or just below the surface of the blocks. Slowly shift your shoulders from side to side, always passing through the center slowly. Between sides or every few sides press back up to High Plank for a brief break. Then lower back down for another round. Maintain your Plank throughout. Side-to-Sides can be inserted into any Yoga sequence. A good place is usually right before lowering all the way down into Cobra or some other prone backbend. One thing to consider is to never lower all the way to your mat with your hands still on the blocks. This can create stress on the shoulder joints. When you finish a couple of rounds of Side-to-Sides press up into Dog, then shift forward into Plank with your hands on your mat and lower all the way down for your backbend. Give this a try. Start building a big chest so there’s more room for a big heart! 💙✌️
It’s Fancock Friday! 🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀 We are taking submissions now. Be brave and share the power of your cock with the world. Here are the guidelines: If sharing an image, make it beautiful. Honor your cock by taking some time to consider lighting, composition, and background. If sharing a video, show us you practicing the strokes in the Deepstroke sequence we have shared so far; compression, milking, corkscrew, palming, hand over hand, double-handed, et. No jacking videos. Everyone knows how to do that. Videos should be about a minute to two in length. Images and videos can be shot from the shoulders down to maintain your anonymity, and will only be shared with your permission. So please grant it when sending. Just like the guys in our videos and images, take this opportunity to share the power of your cock with the world and inspire other men to honor their own cocks by example. ✌️🚀
Now that I have gotten your attention..... This is a powerful moment in time we are all sharing. Even though isolation is key to getting through this, we are all going through this together. So pay attention. Take this moment seriously. But don’t let fear guide your behavior or decisions. Reach out to elderly friends, family, and neighbors. Help them get through this by offering to bring them their food or medications. Support local businesses. Send them donations now. They might not be here when this is all over if they are left on their own. They depend on the community to be able to serve the community. Take care of yourself. Go for walks, roll out your Yoga mat at home or in small groups, drink plenty of water, get enough sleep. When you encounter someone you want to hug. Don’t. And don’t shake hands. But be sure to look each other in the eye. Isolation may help you not catch the virus, but it harms in other ways. Connection comes in many forms and is key for human health, growth, and survival. At this point it certainly seems like we will all be damaged in varying degrees by this moment. But I would rather be damaged together than in isolation. Connection is much more powerful, contagious, and life altering than any virus. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo with Release; Physical and Emotional. The best kind. It is important to find buds that will join you in this space. When we hook up we are sharing sexual energy, creative energy- the most powerful energy in the universe. For too many guys, hooking up has come to mean simply using each other to get off. This is doing an injustice to the profound power of the vibe you are each sharing. Cultivate an attitude of connection for yourself and you will attract other guys who approach sex from the same perspective. Then instead of using each other to get off, even one time hook ups become about sharing and celebrating the vibe that animates us all. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Palming For this one it’s like you are polishing the head of your partner’s cock with the palm of your hand. This one can be super intense for some guys (especially uncut guys). So tread lightly here at first. If the feedback you are receiving is “give me more of that,” then increase the pressure and speed. For some, Palming is tremendous. For others, it can verge on the torturous. And for even others, it can be both. ✌️
Demo: Power Grip Stroke This is a super powerful position to stroke. You and a bud straddle the massage table facing each other. With your left hands grip hands and each of you lean back until there is tension in your arms- you are basically supporting each other’s body weight, and this is where the power in this position is derived. With your right hands you are stroking each other’s cocks. If you don’t have a massage table this position can be modified by kneeling on a bed, or standing on the floor with you feet wide and knees bent. Try this one out. Like I said, it is super powerful, so be mindful. For some guys it’s like going from 0 to 60 in just a few strokes. ✌️
Demo: Deep Close-Grip Push-Ups Can Yoga build a strong chest? Anyone who comes to my classes knows the answer to this question is, absolutely. Over a series of demos I’m going to teach you guys the many different push-up variations you can incorporate into your time on the mat. First up is “Close-Grip Push-ups.” Set your blocks at their middle height at the top of your mat. Come into plank with your hands on your blocks. Set your plank. Meaning, push down into your hands without locking your elbows, push up between your shoulder blades (no valley between your shoulder blades), tuck your tailbone and push up into the back of your knees. Setting Plank ensures your whole body moves through the Push-Ups as a stable unit. As you inhale, slowly lower down. Your chest dips below the surface of the blocks. As you exhale, press back up. Repeat 5-10 times. Maintain your Plank throughout. Push-Ups can be inserted into any Yoga sequence. A good place is usually right before lowering all the way down into Cobra or some other prone backbend. One thing to consider is to never lower all the way with your hands still on the blocks. This can create stress on the shoulder joints. Each time you finish a round of Deep Push-Ups press up into Dog, set the blocks off your mat, then shift forward into Plank with your hands on your mat and lower all the way down for your backbend. I just shot a whole series of chest work, so there’s more coming. For now, give this a try. Start building a big chest so there’s more room for a big heart! 💙✌️
