Post Yoga Selfie; where the worlds of personal improvement a..
Post Yoga Selfie; where the worlds of personal improvement and narcissism collide.✌️
2020-08-07 19:49:27 +0000 UTC View Post
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The Virtue of Bush. Some dudes who come to me for a Deepstr..
The Virtue of Bush.
Some dudes who come to me for a Deepstroke session show up shaved. This is cool and sexy. Some guys show up neatly trimmed. This is also cool and sexy. And then there are the guys who show up sporting a full bush. These guys are rare these days. But there is something to be said about ignoring what mainstream culture says about body hair and proudly going natural wild man. There’s something very sexy about this.
Most people don’t know this factoid, but those who study body hair believe that, in addition to protection from the elements, it serves another purpose; as an antennae to the subtle energies around us. Many believe that the more body hair the more receptive we are to these subtle energies. And some in this group of body hair believers think this heightened awareness aides in our enlightenment. Think of all the prophets and spiritual leaders throughout history from Jesus onward, most had long hair and beards. Now there is no definitive proof of this connection between body hair and enlightenment. But if there is, guys like the sexy guy in this video can probably walk on water.✌️
Coming soon. This was a beautiful and powerful session with ..
Coming soon. This was a beautiful and powerful session with a beautiful, powerful man.✌️
2020-08-02 13:59:50 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo with Release. One of the edging techniques ..
Deepstroke Demo with Release.
One of the edging techniques I teach receivers is to imagine their level of arousal on a scale of 1-10, with 10 representing ejaculation. During a Tantric Edging session you don’t want to get beyond a 5. As the receiver you need to be able to determine how a 5 feels and then communicate “5” to the giver so he knows when to shift gears and change up the stroke in order to help you plateau. This was this beautiful guys first Tantra Edge experience. He called “5” when he was actually at 9.5. With practice he’ll get better at making the correct call. He’ll be back. ✌️
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The Power of Self-Love. Worshipping yourSelf isn’t selfish...
The Power of Self-Love.
Worshipping yourSelf isn’t selfish.
It is Self-care.
Moving through the world as a Shepard of Self-love is a selfless act of rebellion.
Be a rebel with a cause to do good.
The world needs rebels right now.
Draw energy, strength, and inspiration from your cock.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Catapult (formally known as “Big Slide”). I..
Deepstroke Demo: Catapult (formally known as “Big Slide”).
I was teaching a Bodywork client the Deepstroke Sequence, and when we got to “Big Slide” he said, “Oh, like a catapult!”
It stuck.
Are you digging the new name?✌️
Toning the Sacred Vowels. Who doesn’t need an easy to perfor..
Toning the Sacred Vowels.
Who doesn’t need an easy to perform, yet powerful practice to focus and center? I teach Toning the Sacred Vowels toward the beginning of all of my coaching sessions in order to achieve this state of being. It opens our central channel between our Cock and our Crown, and is a great way to prepare for a Tantric Edging session.
The Sacred Vowels are believed to be the very first form of vocal communication human beings practiced. Each Vowel resonates with a different zone of the physical body:
OH- Base
AH- Heart Center
AY (as in “hay”)- Throat Center
OOO- Mask of the Face
EEE- Crown of the Head
As you tone each Vowel bring your awareness (your attention) to its corresponding Zone in order to increase the resonance there.
You can work your way up and then move on to other practices, or if you have more time, work your way up and then back down.
Toning the Sacred Vowels creates an unobstructed path for the energy in our cock and balls to travel up to our heart and beyond to our head. So as I said above, it is a great prep practice for a Tantric Edging session.
But Toning the Sacred Vowels can be used anytime you need to focus and center. It is also a great conflict resolution practice for couples. Just sit facing each other and tone the Vowels together. The energetic harmony you cultivate will open the door to resolve any issue the two of you have been struggling to begin to heal together.
In addition, if you want your hook ups to be more meaningful, as in, a legit connection even if it is just a one off, tone the Vowels together before the action begins. It may not make you want to marry each other (or maybe it might), but it will definitely forge a bond that will make for a hotter, more satisfying experience.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Cathartic Release Lately, in my private onl..
Deepstroke Demo: Cathartic Release
Lately, in my private online coaching and group events we have been exploring the concept of a cathartic release. The term “catharsis” refers to the process of releasing something strong and thereby providing relief. Catharsis is also associated with cleansing and purification. For an orgasm to be cathartic several things need to be present. The first component is a long, slow, mindful build-up. This is what the Deepstroke Sequence is designed to provide. The second piece of the puzzle is the importance of relaxation. Notice all of the parts of your body (from your toes to your brow) that tense up when you stroke your cock or when someone else strokes your cock. I was coaching a man the other day and he couldn’t reach climax. He was right on the edge, but his body wasn’t going over. I gave him one simple cue, I told him to relax and exhale. And literally in the next moment he ejaculated. The third aspect of a cathartic release is to fully commit. What I mean by this is to make big sound if that is your impulse. Allow your body to shake, don’t be afraid of the tremors. Forget about your inhibitions whether alone or with someone else and just loose yourself in those moments of climax. This trifecta of a slow, steady build combined with relaxation combined with complete abandon is the key to the most mind blowing orgasms you have ever experienced; the kind of orgasm our body was designed to provide. The kind of release known from antiquity as “the little death,” because afterward you feel cleansed and new, as if you were reborn.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Newbies I recently coached this sexy couple..
Deepstroke Demo: Newbies
I recently coached this sexy couple visiting from New York. They wanted to learn the Deepstroke sequence in order to enhance their sex life together. They were into sharing their first practice with all of you. ✌️
Coming Soon. This beautiful dude’s first Tantric Edging sess..
Coming Soon. This beautiful dude’s first Tantric Edging session.✌️
2020-07-13 14:55:28 +0000 UTC View PostPost Yoga selfie. There is immense power in a Jockstrap supp..
Post Yoga selfie. There is immense power in a Jockstrap supported practice.✌️
2020-07-11 13:43:14 +0000 UTC View PostThe Power of Receiving. Grab a buddy and take turns just rec..
The Power of Receiving.
Grab a buddy and take turns just receiving. There is enormous power in vulnerability and letting go of the perceived need to always reciprocate. Sometimes the greatest gratitude you can show someone is the simple acceptance of what they are offering.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Daddy Love If you call yourself a “Daddy,” ..
Deepstroke Demo: Daddy Love
If you call yourself a “Daddy,” assume the role responsibly. Be a caretaker. Share your life experience. Teach what you know to be true. Set a good example of how to treat others. Move through the world with confidence and empathy. Be a friend. Be open to learning new things. Listen when others are speaking. Be encouraging when others are struggling. Model emotional maturity. Don’t abuse drugs or alcohol. Don’t abuse people. Be reliable and trustworthy. Practice honesty. Provide a safe space. Cultivate good communication skills. Share healthy habits. Be patient. Go easy on the urge to control everything. You can’t. Cultivate a genuine interest in others. Be vulnerable. Give others their space. Discipline with compassion. Play safe and make sure it is always consensual. Go on adventures. And laugh. A lot.
In other words, being a daddy means being a good human.✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Cock Cradling The key here is solid, even p..
Deepstroke Demo: Cock Cradling
The key here is solid, even pressure, and long, slow strokes. This one feels as good as it looks like it feels.✌️
Hot Daddy Demo: Hand-Over-Hand This clip was from my first w..
Hot Daddy Demo: Hand-Over-Hand
This clip was from my first weekend of shooting for my OF project. The clips back then were super short. But I like to go back through the archives every now and then and share them with you guys. Especially clips featuring this Daddy. 💙
This was written by the awesome Barbara Carrellas. Her book,..
This was written by the awesome Barbara Carrellas. Her book, “Urban Tantra,” is a must read for anyone who wants to understand the sexual component of Tantra and how to incorporate the philosophy into your life and spiritual practice.✌️
2020-06-26 00:33:55 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Free-Style Masked and jocked up. The new re..
Deepstroke Demo: Free-Style
Masked and jocked up. The new reality in the age of Corona virus. Many of you have been asking for long versions of the demos. I am answering the call! There is a new stroke in this sequence. The Rope Shake. See if you can find it. More on the power of this new stroke in future posts. ✌️
Know your sensual preferences. Are you a visual person? Does..
Know your sensual preferences. Are you a visual person? Does watching someone else get off turn you on? Are you a auditory person? Does hearing someone get off turn you on? Or are you a kinesthetic person? Does being stroked turn you on? Most of us are a combination of all three. But know where you stand with each category. Know what is number 1,2, and 3 for you personally. Very often our secondary or tertiary turn on’s will be the first to catch our attention, and then our primary turn on takes over. Knowing your sensual preferences is important because you can then be very clear with a new partner about what you enjoy. And knowing a new partner’s sensual preferences is important because you skip over the period of guessing whether or not you are working him right. It’s all about self-knowledge and good communication. It takes some introspection and some practice. But fuck, it’s worth it. ✌️
2020-06-18 18:22:15 +0000 UTC View PostGuys who have taken my in-person or online workshops have he..
Guys who have taken my in-person or online workshops have heard the phrase, “love on your nipples,” many times. I’m a Nipple Play pusher. I proudly admit it. Besides just being a really fun and beautiful part of our anatomy to play with and explore, our nipples are part of our heart center. Nipple play is a heart opener. Now more than ever the world needs more open hearted human beings. If more nipple play is a way to get us there I’m all for it and calling on all political leaders to include the promise of more Nipple Play into their platforms! ✌️
2020-06-14 16:44:04 +0000 UTC View PostConnecting our heart center with our root establishes a bond..
Connecting our heart center with our root establishes a bond forged in balance, compassion, love, and sacredness within the world of matter. In other words, everything in the physical realm is perceived as sacred when viewed through the eyes of the heart. ✌️
2020-06-09 19:09:39 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Crowning/Juicing Support the base of the co..
Deepstroke Demo: Crowning/Juicing
Support the base of the cock with one hand and with the finger tips of the other hand cap and gently pull the head. This is Crowning. To Juice you extend the stroke all the way down the shaft. At the bottom of the stroke the head of the cock hits the palm of your hand. Because of this and the way the finger tips feel sliding down the shaft, Juicing is experienced in much the same way as if someone was sucking the cock. And as you can hear from the recipient in this video, Juicing can be surprisingly intense and deeply satisfying. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo- Freestyle This was one of the very first vi..
Deepstroke Demo- Freestyle
This was one of the very first videos I shot for the Deepstroke Project. Two things I love about this scene: I love how slow and methodical the giver is with his strokes. And I love how the receiver just holds the giver’s cock in his hand. He doesn’t stroke. He just holds. During workshops I always encourage receivers to just receive and not to feel like they have to reciprocate (they will when it’s time for them to give), or to be distracted by stroking the giver’s cock. This receiver just holds. It’s like the giver’s cock is his tether to the present moment. ✌️
Teaching a men’s all-level Yoga class on Sunday at 10am (Sea..
Teaching a men’s all-level Yoga class on Sunday at 10am (Seattle time) in the Zoom-O-Sphere. The exchange for class is $20. But as a thank you for my OF subscribers it is only $10. Message me and I’ll send you the Zoom log-in info. ✌️
2020-05-28 15:48:36 +0000 UTC View PostBefore the pandemic a third of Americans used some form of d..
Before the pandemic a third of Americans used some form of drug (prescription/over-the-counter/recreational) in order to sleep. I don’t know of any current studies, but we can all be pretty sure that even more people are struggling with getting a good night’s sleep now than ever before. Here is a simple remedy for those who have been waking up at 3am. These gentle twists work in several ways. First, they aide in digestion. If issues from a nervous stomach are making you uncomfortable and keeping you awake, this will help literally move things along. Second, twists wring out our internal organs which helps to detoxify our system. The gentle twists squeeze impurities from where they have accumulated so that they can be processed and eliminated. Third, and most importantly for a good night’s sleep, they detoxify the mind. The cross body movement of your legs going in one direction while your neck and head go in the opposite direction balance the two hemispheres of the brain and create a calm, centered state of mind free of the toxic thoughts that keep us awake at night.
Next time you are staring at the ceiling praying for sleep, try these for about 5-10 minutes. Sync the movement with slow deep breathes. And be sure not to poke your partner in the eye with your elbows. ✌️
After weeks of conserving, the moment has come to release. T..
After weeks of conserving, the moment has come to release. Time slows. The mind focuses on the center of your masculinity. And a flood flows forth. ✌️
2020-05-22 19:29:37 +0000 UTC View PostComing soon. This iconic cock. ✌️
Coming soon. This iconic cock. ✌️
2020-05-21 15:48:41 +0000 UTC View PostDeepstroke Demo: Solo Self-Love In this time of isolation th..
Deepstroke Demo: Solo Self-Love
In this time of isolation there is no need to stroke alone. The man in the mirror is always there ready to show off his cock for you. ✌️
Deepstroke Demo: Freestyle This is one of the first demos I ..
Deepstroke Demo: Freestyle
This is one of the first demos I shot. It’s short, but I wanted to share it because it’s a good example of loving on cock. Watch how slow and mindful he is as he worships his partners cock. Who wants to lie down on his table next? ✌️
Nipple Play: Solo Demo Here is an example of a Nipple Play s..
Nipple Play: Solo Demo
Here is an example of a Nipple Play solo session. I slowly cycle through the different strokes: Pettrissage (kneading), Palming, Closing Circles, Pulsing, Toggling, Pinch and Flick, Flicking, Knuckling, Cupping, and Pettrissage. Just as you would do chanting mantras, pause in between each to allow the energy flow. Remember to breath deeply throughout. This sequence is a great prelude to a Tantra Edge session. Or it can be a stand alone practice to energize and open the heart. And if you are one of those guys who thinks your nipples aren’t “wired,” practice this sequence for a couple of days and then thank me. ✌️
Our skin is permeable. Meaning anything we rub into it is ab..
Our skin is permeable. Meaning anything we rub into it is absorbed into our body and system. You wouldn’t open a bottle of WET or ID and drink a couple of spoonfuls. But that is basically what you are doing every time you rub it onto your cock. Consider this the next time you are choosing a lube to masturbate with. In my Bodywork practice, workshops, online coaching, and personal sex life I always recommend coconut or olive oil. Organic is best. For those who don’t like the fact that most coconut oil is solid at room temperature, get the fractionated version. It stays stable as a liquid at any temp. Both oils provide a smooth glide with just the right amount of drag for good friction. In addition to no harmful side effects from being absorbed through the skin, if your stroke session with a bud turns oral, it’s all still good. These days most of us are very health conscious and deeply care about what we consume. This same mindset is applicable to our sex life. Choose your lube wisely. ✌️
2020-05-11 12:08:56 +0000 UTC View Post