Backdoor Resurrection Easter Weekend Vancouver April 19, 2025 11pm-6am Secret East Van Warehouse Presented by Mateo Tomas
Celebrate the miracle of men loving men this Easter weekend with a resurrected Backdoor warehouse party. Returning from the dead to breed new ideas back into nightlife, but with a reinvigorated mission, informed by the experiences of international gay porn and entertainment, to create an incredible arena of intimacy, male-on-male connection, and a love to believe in.
We are imagining an all night dance and play party together: a place where everyone brings our best empowering vibes to validate other men. Where we have a checklist of how we want to feel rather than what others should be, because that is entirely in our own power. Loving, validating, empowering, protecting, giving. We believe anyone who loves themself is beautiful. We love seeing men love other men, and in turn, love ourselves. Together, we can create a sexual revolution inside ourselves for everyone else. This is a party where we can all be eachother's daddies, friends, and lovers.
We are imaging a place where we are not "a bottom", but we CAN bottom. We are not "a top", but CAN top. We honour any man for whatever he CAN do because these are skills, not identities. Together, we can do it all, because when we focus on how we can fulfill rather than be filled, true sexual awakening can manifest ...and the circle continues ad infinitum.
We are proudly open for love, happy for the resurrection, because this Easter. Will you rise with us?
Featuring international DJ SassySquatch (Seattle) and Vancouver local favourite, Aran Mo.
Hosted by award nominated erotic cinema star, Mateo Tomas collaborating on stage with local monster cock, Colton Robinson, in 3 live love shows throughout the night.
Clothes check available. 11pm-5am. East Van location revealed to ticket holder on day of event Presented by Vancouver Art and Leisure and friends. We make this event as affordable as possible because gay love shouldn't cost a premium. If you are experiencing financial hardship and can not afford a ticket message us on instagram to participate. All funds raised will be used to help resurrect what you know and love for future events. Happy Easter, king.
Some of you might remember our last event, Backdoor NYE Dec 31, 2023. My gosh has it ever been a wild journey since then. I left Vancouver with dreams to become an international event promoter after this solemn good bye party with 2 parties in production, one in Mexico City, one in Puerto Vallarta.I had finally done it, after a previous cancelled party in Vallarta, I had secured a licensed club in the heart of Zona Romantica. Only to see it crumble before my very eyes (read on). Like the time I lost the Main Steet Centre, or the Villa was arsoned, or I was threatened to be arrested if I did not throw parties in licensed clubs, or when I lost Central Studios and my life's savings because of pandemic shut downs. This was just one more time the rug had been pulled from under me.I was in Puerto Vallarta, and I had been promised to work with a famous pornographer who often films out of there. While I was promised no money, I had the opportunity to grace the big leagues of professional porn. But again, this was another misnomer. The director called me to his villa, where I believed I would be discussing the filming, how innocent I was. The director tried to p1ss on me, and call me homophobic slurs, in a bizarre and painful casting couch incident. When I spoke up for myself and said I would not be depicted like this, he said I am too fat to ever make it in porn and had no future in the industry. He told me to get the fuck out of his house with my ugly daddy body.That sounded like a challenge to me, not just to succeed in Commercial Porn, but to do it in a way that was loving and affirmative to my people. The complete opposite of my recent experience.I left his Villa crying, returning to a friends house, Ridick. He's a famous European porn star. He said he would get me a real gig that actually pays and days later I was starring in a professional erotic cinema produced by CutlersDen. The shoot went so well, and when I got out of the shoot I checked Facebook and discovered I was once again embroiled in another scandal and my PV party was in jeapordy. I just made professional porn, only to see my other profession crumble in all the big plans I had for it. Isn't it strange how we as marginlized gay men are so quick to attack other gay men rather than the dominant culture? I was actually being slandered by white older gay men, the same people I was trying to help. As I like to say in these situations, God never says no, she just says not right now or I have something better planned, and boy, did she ever! The party was cancelled because I had put up posters around Zona Romantica, featuring beautiful drawings of gay cherubs. A sermon was held at the Cathedral about my ungodliness, and the mayor called for me to be arrested. I was once again in danger, for the crime of helping men to love men openly, and I had to flee the state to Nuevo Vallarta. During this time I had a minor heart event and had to seek medical attention. So much trauma had been piled onto me over the years by people wishing to see my fail. Back in Vancouver, rumours were spinning, the schadenfreude was real. I quickly decided to also cancel my party in Mexico and leave the industry entirely, less i sacrifice my health and safety. I am not a martyr. And so began my foray into professional porn. I moved to montreal for 18 months where I did over 50 studio scenes, while also flying to the USA every few months for other engagements. I ended up doing 11 scenes with CutlersDen, 2 scenes for Raging Stallion, 7 scenes for Men, 6 scenes for Men at Play, 5 scenes for Carnal+, 11 scenes for BroNetwork, as well as dozens of other scenes with brands like Treasure Island, BroMo, Reality Dudes, Naked Sword, Adulttime and many more. I was nominated in my first few months for Best Fetish Scene, and the following year recieved 8 GayVN nominations, and 1 Grabbies nomination (Best Newcomer), making me the most nominated Canadian of the year. I am extremely grateful to have receieved this platform. But I was missing something....To all the people who just knew me from porn, they didn't know about the rest of my life's work. Organizing the Dance Against Hate, during the pandemic to stop homophobic hate speech, or the Rally to Legalize poppers, which became a national election issue. Or my work to make industrial and commerical spaces legal for people like us to have special events with sex on premise, which later became law. We did these things together, and I felt empty as a simple sex symbol without the context of all my years before.How do I marry who I was with who I had become? How does Mateo hold a place for Matthew? I tried to create an event in Montreal, but nothing was happening organically and I trusted my gut it wasn't the right move. I decided to move back to my home. I had already done what I came to do in Montreal, and I had people telling me how much they missed my contribution to thier lives in Vancouver. I love this small community, despite our infighting and hurt feelings, I beleive we are strong powerful loving gay men together. So now, I am back here in Vancouver, Still working on my porn career, about to do a European studio tour, and feeling much more in harmony with who I am. I am many things beyond a porn star, I am an activist, a space maker, a rave-granny, and a fighter for gay people like me.I have launched a new event, not without more struggle and roadblocks, the venue I had booked was snatched up by the incoming election despite me already paying the deposit. It wasn't the first time the government had foiled my plans, covid, omricon, and all the police harrasment you saw us overcome together. Well, I found an even better venue for this party somehow, Elizabeth Taylor was looking out for me. I wanted to share this all with you, so you know I never really left you guys. You were always in my heart and I missed being there for you deeply. I am hoping that this Backdoor Resurrection Easter Weekend party is one for the record books, one for you to remember for a lifetime. I come into this event a wiser, changed man. I've seen the inner workings of Gay entertainment from every angle, in all of its corruption, and greed. That is not what I will make for the world, I want to change gay culture for the better with my work even by a small amount because over time that will be a huge deviation in course change. That's why this event I am creating is all about us loving eachother, because we all wanting to be loved. (me especially!!)I am asking you to join in this event if you can because I miss being a part of your lives. I love the Vancouver commununity, and it is you who made me who I am today and I am so grateful for the ten years of parties, festivals, and actions we made together to change Vancouver's nightlife DNA. I am proud to see other creators using my formula without the risk of being arrested, as I was. I am proud to have been one of the leaders to get us there.Please consider joining in the resurrection with us as it will be a party to remember, one where we validate each other as men who have sex with men, and aims to heal and grow our culture. If you're interested in seeing what happens when a seasoned event director, becomes an international porn star, only to take everything he has known and distill it into a specially curated event made just for you, this is the one. Thank you for hearing me out. I miss you all. Thank you again for always coming through for me, protecting me, and I will do the same for you all.
Good Pig!! Christian Hunter takes 9 inches in a new oral dom scene. Dedicated to all the good pigs of the world who love loving men and making men happy.
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Another collab from my weekend in Vegas during the GayVN's and Hustlaball weekend. There is still a few more coming from that trip because im such a slut lol.
Hope you enjoy this! I havent had posted for a while because I have been working on my book about Men Loving Men. I appreciate any support as I work for you!! XO
So fucking horny for all the big dicks I’m about to put in my mouth in Vegas !!! Feed me at HustlaBall on Saturday night and see you at the awards on Monday where I have 7 nominations!
I’ve moved back to the city that bred my from the boy I was to the daddy ive become. Before I did porn, I created art spaces for gay men to live free and pioneered new laws that allowed us to gather as men to love eachother. I organized wild gay warehouse parties, art shows, fundraisers, and pride festival celebrating gay sex, protests to stop hate speech, actions to legalize p0ppers, and worked to make our gay spaces safer. I changed Vancouver gay culture, (something I’m trying to do on a bigger scale currently in porn) and now ive returned home.
I would like you all to consider coming to town Easter Long Weekend for a new festival i am creating focused on hot male connection, erotic cinema, and nightlife. Love you guys, happy to be home, in Vancouver Canada.
PS I’m working on a book about our place in the world as men who love men and how we can love eachother and ourself more, using stories from my wild life and our inspiring history of survival as gay men through true ages, sharing philosophies of all things to do with male on male love, lust; and sex: I can’t wait to share my progress soon and am hoping all of you can be a part of this project. All your support of me and my art has been my reason to be.
I live for you, I work for you, I know I am loved and protected by the divine powers of gay love on earth. I’ve spent my life working for a cause I believe in: so that no man would ever feel the pain of a world made to hurt us. We are powerful men-loving men who support each other. I’ve always worked for this cause, and the men I’ve helped have never let me down yet.
Back in the city that bred me. Where I learned to become my own Daddy. Where I helped gay men make spaces to love ourselves and eachother. Where I am known not as Mateo Tomas but as your old friend Matt. Happy to be home where my heart always was. Looking forward to connecting with old friends and lovers. Vancouver.
PS: Should I throw a Backdoor Gay Warehouse party? 🤫💁♂️ I would love to create a little gay weekend for you all in my Vancouver! @backdoor.party on insta
If you’re gonna give your dick to a cocksucker you might as well call in a second and make them share! Get your ass ate and dick sucked at the same time. Why not? Doubled up on cocksuckers with Jeremy Feist and OnlyMatt! I love my friends!
He wanted to showcase his huge uncut dick in my hungry desperate-for-cum mouth! Well, mission accomplished! His first video! I’m discovering new stars every day and rubbing their dicks in my eye lol I’m having a great time
Sorry for the lack of new content - I have a bunch of stuff coming soon and appreciate you all being here. I want to be there for you too, so message me anytime. If you’re struggling financially during Christmas, send me a DM and I’ll send you a free 7 days to my premium. We all deserve love and self love. Appreciate you guys and Merry Christmas.
I’m waiting for a Daddy John collab to come out on Christmas Day called “Bad Santa” and have another blowjob video to be released shortly!
I’m working hard on myself right now with self care to better serve all of you right now. Love you guys
"Daddy DICKED!" with multi-award winning, acclaimed porn star legend, Manuel Skye!
About the name: Being daddy is an ability we all have - its about supporting other gay men with your love, knowledge, skills, advice, and maybe even more (dicks). I am so thankful for Manuel Skye being someone in my life who has supported me to become the man I want to be, and he let's me call him DADDY! Thanks DADDY!
And, I am also soooo thankful for you all of you, too. That's why I am running a Thanksgiving special just for you on my premium with 25% off until Dec 1st, because I want to support you to feel RELIEF, LUST, and maybe even a little LOVE?! You deserve it. You can support me too by subscribing at https://onlyfans.com/mateotomas and I would be so thankful! 🙏
Dropping at midnight! My new video with the legendary @manuelskyexxx - one of the first people to believe in me when I was starting porn. As men, we can be so selfish and its rare to find other men who support and nurture others, like we all should. So, I made this video using a daddy theme because, hey, Being Daddy isnt about your age, it is about your ability to leave men in a better place than where you found them! Am i right boys?
Porn Star Confessions Podcast with Masculine Jason
I got a chance to sit down and talk in a rare example of men not telling me to shut up and bottom! It's great to share a bit about my philosophies around gay sex and culture and I hope to share more soon! I am working on a book all about our place in the world as gay men and my insane life as a global party promoter and gay porn star. Let me know your thoughts and enjoy!
