🌹 Dare to love! 🔥 I believe one of the biggest reasons we do..

🌹 Dare to love! 🔥

I believe one of the biggest reasons we don’t have, explore, and share more love in our lives is because of the silly little wanker: fear. Fear of rejection, fear of judgement, fear of being vulnerable, fear of being hurt (again). It keeps us locked in our own minds, overthinking every little detail, instead of just letting ourselves feel and experience what could be the beginning of something beautiful. 💦🌱

This month, I want to encourage all of us to practice being afraid and doing it anyways. 💪🔥

Allow me to be a bit vulnerable for a moment...

One of my goals for this month is to put myself out there more. Saying yes to that date. Not spending the whole day obsessing over every little detail, like what I’m wearing, that pimple on my cheek, or how I blush and look away every time we lock eyes. And yeah, it might sound silly because a lot of you compliment me on the daily about the way I look and act (thank you! 🥹🫶), but still, I can be really insecure too. Believe it or not 🤷‍♂️

I have only just started putting myself out there again, and while I absolutely love my work and often would rather work than go out and meet someone, I know I've also used it as an excuse not to have to open up my heart again. Cause last time, like for so many of us, it ended up broken to bits. In addition, many people who wants to see me know what I work with or have seen me on socials or onlyfans. Sometimes I feel like I can't live up to the expectations I create for myself. I was supposed to go on a date some weeks ago and I cancelled twice. Both times I made some harcore excuse, but it was simply because I go way too self-concious and stressed out about it. I kept going back to the mirror and applying make-up, fixing my hair, changing my clothes, over and over. What a sucky behaviour? For me and for him.

So this month I say Fuck it!

Are you with me? 🫵 Then I dare you, yes I DARE YOU, to go on ONE DATE this month. That’s it! That’s all you have to do. Afterward, share your story with me. I’ll be right here, waiting to hear how it went — and hopefully, I’ll have a nice story to share in return. 😅🤞

Are you already in a relationship? Then use this challenge as an opportunity to ramp things up, what could make a date challenging for you? What would make you nervous and make you step out of your own comfort zone, and at the same time make both you and your partner happy? Try it! Do it! Enjoy it! 

The most heartfelt story will win a signed calendar, but the real prize, I hope, is that you get to explore parts of yourself that you love and realize how incredibly rewarding (and actually fun) it can be to let go of the fear. 🏆✨
Let’s stop hiding behind it, shall we? Let's get (back) out there. Let's fucking go! ❤️‍🔥