I did a favour for a friend's niece and answered a bunch of ..

I did a favour for a friend's niece and answered a bunch of questions. This is her summery. Maybe I should have been a bit more cheerful! I feel I must have painted a terrible picture of my life: Interview Summary Initial Reaction: The interviewee first experienced a sense of denial when diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS). The prospect of any mobility issues, even as seemingly minor as needing a cane, was emotionally devastating. Changes to Daily Life: The interviewee's daily life significantly changed as she had to increasingly rely on her boyfriend and his son for many of her needs. While previously she enjoyed being looked after as a matter of choice, needing assistance was a source of depression. Isolation and Exclusion: The sudden decline in her health, along with the restrictions imposed by the pandemic, led to a sense of profound isolation. From being highly sociable, she found herself essentially a recluse. Social and Professional Reactions: She noted a substantial reduction in her social circle following her mobility loss, attributing this to the removal of shared interests and activities. Online connections with people in similar conditions or with an interest in her life as a disabled person have been somewhat helpful. Support Networks and Resources: The interviewee had a negative experience with a support group for people with MS, as she found the encounters with others, either less affected or worse off than her, highly distressing. Career Impact: The interviewee's career as a live-in nanny was completely disrupted due to her condition and ensuing disability. Impact on Self-Identity: The interviewee's self-perception drastically changed. She believes she has become a "lesser" version of herself, especially as her self-worth was primarily tied to her physical appearance and social perceptions. Coping Strategies: The interviewee admitted to not having effective strategies to cope with stress and negative emotions related to her condition. Therapy has been considered but not pursued due to discomfort with strangers. Positives or Growth: The interviewee found no positives or growth opportunities in her experience with MS and the resulting disability. Any potential silver lining was dismissed as being insignificant compared to the losses experienced. Overall, this interview paints a picture of the considerable physical, emotional, and social challenges faced by this individual due to her MS and sudden disability. The areas of concern include coping mechanisms, feelings of isolation, changes in personal and professional life, and struggles with self-identity. It underscores the need for more comprehensive support systems, especially mental health services, for people dealing with sudden disability.