Post 7/19 One day, @spankbankstudios and his massage therapist got on the topic of tantric massage, a topic on which she was well versed. As they discussed the topic, she never asked him if heโd like one nor did she offer to give one. However, a few sessions later, @spankbankstudios broached the topic again and asked if she would consider offering that service to him. He was humble in his approach, and indicated that she could kick him out if she were offended, and that he wouldnโt broach the topic again if it wasnโt an option.