Self Love ❤️So the funeral is over and family has gone back ..

Self Love ❤️

So the funeral is over and family has gone back to their many places of living. The house is quiet and ours again. Tbh it’s been a while since I’ve been able to sit by myself in silence and bust a nut. The past few years of caring for someone left us exhausted most days by the end of the day. Now everything is still, sort of surreal in a way.

Self love is an art, a celebration of the body and mind, and there’s something incredibly special about carving out time for yourself especially at night, when the world is quiet, and it’s just you and your thoughts. In a modern urban world where schedules are packed, and stress piles on, those long, extended bate sessions can be the ultimate escape. It’s a personal retreat, a way to connect with your own body on a deeper level, free to explore your desires without any external pressures.

There’s a real pleasure in the buildup, the anticipation that comes with knowing that this time is yours. It’s not rushed, there are no distractions, just a pure connection with yourself. You dim the lights, maybe put on some music or your favorite visuals, setting the mood just right. Each touch is intentional, savoring every moment and letting go of the day’s chaos. There’s a joy in this slowness, in drawing things out, feeling every sensation fully. It’s not about rushing to the end, but about enjoying the journey, feeling the gradual rise of pleasure, knowing you can take as long as you want. It’s an indulgence, a way to remind yourself that you deserve this kind of attention, and that taking time for self care is essential.

In these quiet moments, the city fades away the traffic, the endless notifications, the constant demand for productivity. Instead, it’s just you, fully present, fully in tune with what feels good. There’s a unique power in this kind of self pleasure, the kind that’s not just physical but deeply emotional and mental. It’s about giving yourself permission to feel, to unwind, and to release. The more time you take, the more you become attuned to your body’s rhythms, discovering new sensations and unlocking deeper layers of pleasure. There’s no judgment, no external gaze, just an intimate dialogue with yourself.

In a world that constantly pulls you in different directions, self love is a way to reclaim your autonomy, your pleasure, and your body. You’re in control, deciding the pace, the intensity, and when (or if) the session ends. It’s empowering to know that you can create this kind of joy for yourself, without relying on anyone else. These extended solo sessions become a form of meditation, a way to clear your mind and focus on the moment. You can let go of the need to perform or meet expectations this time is purely for you, a gift to yourself.

And when it’s over, there’s a profound sense of relaxation, like you’ve just reset your entire system. You can feel the tension melt away, the stress of the day lifted, and what’s left is a sense of peace, satisfaction, and self-love. It’s a reminder that you’re worthy of this time, that your pleasure matters, and that sometimes, the best company you can have is yourself.