Really sorry about the radio silence. I feel I owe you all a..
Added 2022-08-19 09:28:17 +0000 UTCReally sorry about the radio silence. I feel I owe you all an explanation.
Basically I politely declined an offer to go and get fucked by a guy who I had previously made content with: "Hey man, really sorry but I'm just not feeling horny tonight so I'm going to get a takeaway and catch up on some TV".
At which point he blew a fuse, started telling me I was a time waster and that I'm a huge dick and then blocked me on everything.
I didn't think anything of it. I actually thought it was hilarious how pathetic the reaction was, but then he went and reported the 2 or 3 clips I had put on twitter that we had made for "Including unauthorized, intimate content of me or someone else."
The only way I had to dispute this claim, even though I have screenshots with permission to post, was a small text box. The appeal didn't go through and so the twitter was deleted.
This was extremely gutting for me. I've never felt violated like this. It took me over a month to even attempt to make another twitter and then that became difficult and got me down again. 40k followers, 4 years of work, putting myself out there, relying on the income it makes me to be able to afford to have a life was just gone, like that, because I wasn't horny one Monday night when this guys wanted me to be.
But we're back now. I have a backlog of content to post and I'm going to try and work on that before Manchester Pride next weekend.
