Good evening my dears I hope you are all well ☺️ Since the..
Added 2021-09-07 22:59:42 +0000 UTCGood evening my dears I hope you are all well ☺️ Since the question or rather the wish to write about how to start with bdsm best, came up more often, I took it as an incentive to do something good for myself again. Because bringing yourself closer to this world (especially in the beginning but also like me after a longer time) is something of the most valuable on the journey in this world. Because bdsm has a lot more to do with communication, feeling, setting limits but also expanding them and also with self-love and above all respect than you might think at first. And I also believe that this world often seems so dangerous, and unfortunately it can be, is because people enter it not knowing themselves, the limits but also the honest motives. That's why it's so valuable to get to know yourself, without pressure and also without other people and thus dangers. And believe me, you can try out so many things for yourself, get to know your limits and also expand them, and yet the greatest risk (psychological assault) is as good as eliminated. Because, as I mean to know it, you often play with yourself in emotional moments but feel yourself very well and there are rarely too many substances involved that cloud your senses, which also makes it dangerous 👉👈 So my tip on how to get started with this, order whatever interests you, ropes, a pinwheel, gags, candles or whatever else excites you (it can even be a whip) Get chick for yourselves and date yourselves. And if you prefer to try it out with someone, then take your partner you really trust or a best friend, but try it out with someone close to you and not just someone from the "scene" you don't know. Because there are a lot of people with their own motives and little interest in slowly and carefully building up a common communication. But that is the most important and most beautiful thing about it and must also be learned with oneself 👉👈❤️
