Our contract A topic that seems to interest so many of you...
Added 2021-10-10 21:55:35 +0000 UTCOur contract A topic that seems to interest so many of you... So I would like to write a little bit about it, but please keep in mind that this is something very personal and there is no point in just copying something that is not adapted to you and your own dynamics. We have been working on the contract over and over again and hopefully it will continue to evolve. But in general it is divided into 3 parts: 1st part: the general, our dynamics and ground rules. So that I belong to him, he is my owner, and this must be publicly evident as well as that I wear a sign for it (my neck ring). he is my king and I am his babygirl. That we both commit ourselves to always be honest and to do everything possible to make each other happy, to fulfill the respective tasks and to always stand up for the love and the common in good as well as in bad times. Of course everything is a little more detailed, but actually similar to a marriage vow. The 2nd part are all the tasks, which are now very many ;) and just I think that's the point at which you can be creative and respond to your preferences. I myself found it very nice that it also includes "tasks" for Dennis, which was his idea. Like for example that he reads me a story every Sunday or gives me a stuffed animal when we are more than 2 nights apart :) Or that he always walks on the sidewalk by the street. But of course there are also much more for me in it, such as that Im not allowed to wear street clothes at home except for exceptions such as visit but then need his permission. That I have to satisfy him sexually at all times (here a lot of people skills are needed, because Dennis would never take advantage of that) or also that I always eat/use his sperm so it is never wasted. Likewise, he must always know what underwear I wear when I leave the house. We have a play session per week and I am responsible for example that he always has good and tasty food as well as for his hair ;) But there are so many things more that I can hardly write them all down and also do not want. The 3rd part is responsible for the compliance and billing of the contract. We have decided on a weekly "talk/billing" and we sit most together, I in his chosen underwear or outfit and he writes down over the week what I have done right or wrong. It can be that I got extra praise for something and also that I did things wrong/forgotten. Depending on the severity, there are different numbers of penalty points and then it get settled/billed. Mostly I can choose the kind and way (of the almost always hits). Say whether with hand, flogger, whip or stick is punished and then the points are worked off and always said for what it is and I often have to count. But it also happens that the punishment for something special is a little different. Mostly if it was something really bad. Then I had to write for example already with lipstick on the mirror what I did wrong and then read it over several days again and again. So and now you still have questions?
