PET play - or in my case kitten play For many people this i..
Added 2021-12-19 00:39:36 +0000 UTCPET play - or in my case kitten play For many people this is still a topic which is connected with many prejudices but also incomprehension. Therefore I would like to tell you a little bit about it, because I think it has only rarely to do with the real sexual attraction concerning animals. (And if it is in my eyes a good way to live out preferences without really involving and with this harming animals). But I can only speak of what I have experienced so far and especially what it gives me and my partner. I myself like to give up control but at the same time still know somewhere what my "role" or task is. So similar to being his sub, just more "extreme" because for a short time as a kitten I can put aside everything "human", don't have to talk, do tasks or be "sexy" and can just do what a cat does, be, purr, eat, play and also sometimes sleep curled up somewhere. so I also associate being a kitten very much with sub space. And I think many pets feel the same way. Because sub space means nothing else than creating a space / situation in which you can be submissive and let yourself go, just give up the "human responsibility" and the control and just let yourself fall… be somehow animalistic and quite banal functioning. However, be in safety, have someone who takes responsibility and is just the human "master". Ensures obedience, the important things but also security and thus creates a sub space. And I think that is also what I find so beautiful about it and why in general BDSM and the fetish/kink world is so much my home. Because it's all about trust and open communication and creating situations where you feel comfortable and safe, play with each other and live out the love so much that it's not always just about penetration. There are so many forms of satisfaction and attraction to each other. And in the end, a relationship and love should be nothing other than the place where you feel free, safe and also no "normal" exists but only what pleases all involved and you can thus tank energy together for life and the tasks of living and society.
