Mindful Edging with Cathartic Release Just because you have..

Mindful Edging with Cathartic Release

Just because you have a cock doesn’t necessarily mean you know how to stroke cock. Most of the guys I coach hear this truth. And this is because most guys learn to stroke cock in secrecy. We lock ourselves in a bathroom in the house we grew up in, and we get ourselves off as quickly and as quietly as we can so we don’t get caught. This habit sets up a very deep groove in our nervous system. It’s the fast track to ejaculation groove. And once locked into that groove it’s a very hard rut to get out of. We convince ourselves that “I cum quickly,” because we have taught ourselves to cum quickly, and then this belief becomes a self fulfilling prophecy every time you or someone else strokes your cock.
To jump the groove requires 3 things:
1. Creative Cock Stroking- don’t just stroke your cock in the same way you always have (for most this means jacking). Instead familiarize yourself with many different strokes. This is why I developed the 12 stroke Deepstroke Sequence.
2. Remember to Breathe and Relax- as our body moves toward ejaculation a natural tension begins to build. Counter this tension by deepening your inhales and lengthening your exhales, and consciously focus on identifying parts of your body where you are holding tension (hands, feet, butt, perineum, face- including your jaw) and relaxing those areas. This helps to downshift your nervous system to a lower gear further away from release.
3. Teach your Stroke Buds how to Stroke- if you want to be successful at edging with others it’s very important to teach them the above two principles, especially the strokes. As I said above, just because someone has a cock doesn’t mean they know how to stroke cock. Most guys will deal with your cock the same way they deal with theirs; they’ll jack you, and this will probably get you off quickly; unless you take the time to teach them.
From my experience, no dude doesn’t want to know how to stroke cock better. So practice the first two principles on your own, and then teach them to every dude you stroke with. The end result is more skillful, more mindful stroke buds. It’s a win win. 💙