๐ค **Then & Now** ๐ค Today at the gym I bumped into an old friend. Weโre still friends, just been out of touch. Our older boys are the same ages so weโd always hang out at each otherโs homes. Adults would have drinks, boys would be busy playing video games, manhunt outside, hanging out, whatever. This was all about eight years ago. I always had this suspicion that they might be swingers, and that her husband was interested in me. One summer we were in her pool and she confided that theyโd had a threesome with a woman. I was fascinated and she told me how it all went down, from start to finish. She then confessed how much hotter sex with her husband has been. As we continued to hang out, she told me her husband was attracted to me. I remember feeling uncomfortable, completely uncertain how to act around them. I used humor to deflect my uneasy feelings. But as we casually chatted today, I couldnโt help laughing to myself. Oh, how times have changed! Sheโd be floored hearing the stories I have to share now. Sheโll never know, but it certainly had me reflecting on how Drew and I have grown in this lifestyle! I wonder if Iโll see her hubby at the gym anytime soon ๐