Seeking no credit for one’s deeds can be a double-edged swor..
Added 2023-11-04 18:59:04 +0000 UTCSeeking no credit for one’s deeds can be a double-edged sword. It's admirable to give without expecting anything in return, but it can lead to an imbalance where one’s own needs are constantly set aside. This mindset often stems from a belief that having needs is not permissible, a trait developed early in life to gain acceptance and avoid abandonment. But as one matures, this trait can manifest as resentment or bitterness when the scales of give and take remain tipped. Recognizing the need for self-care and asserting personal needs is crucial. It’s about shedding the people-pleaser persona and embracing the idea that having needs doesn't diminish one’s worth. It’s time to slow down, acknowledge those needs, and approach relationships with a clear voice and confidence, aiming for a genuine exchange of give and take. Only then can one become the assertive individual they strive to be, fully in tune with their desires and unashamed of expressing them.
