

Hi everyone, I am so sorry I have been MIA. Some of you may or may not be aware, but I was doxxed by someone in late July/early August, and information about my OF and reddit were given to my workplace. THANKFULLY, I have not lost my job, but my confidence has been seriously shaken and I had to seriously re-evaluate my place here. I think I was previously quite naive and too easy going - so in an effort to connect with people and be real, I often disclosed hints of my real life that eventually gave away who I am and where I work. Most of you have been amazing, and respectful and we’ve developed real connections; but this one incident has been a real lesson in managing privacy and personal information.
I hope you can all forgive my absence and understand why I needed to suddenly disappear.
But now this fiasco is over - I am excited to get back to posting!