What I love about fucking men with a strap on is that they get to feel what itβs like to be completely out of control of sex. It seems to be that the anatomical configuration of hetero sex allows for those who penetrate to have greater command over the speed and depth of sex, and therefore the general intensity of it. I ascribe this to an anatomical difference, not one of gender, as men are not inherently more controlling or dominant in bed. A Woman can be as dominant - if not more dominant - than her partner, but in most sex positions the pace and depth is still determined by the one doing the thrusting (I.e. the man). A Woman must assert Her dominance and control over sex by verbally dictating to Her partner how hard or deep he must fuck. Not negating the power of a Womanβs ability to play the sexually dominant in bed, I would argue the locus of control still ultimately remains with the person doing the penetrating action. Using a strap-on completely inverts this dynamic. It is Me who controls the pace and depth. The only tool that men have to assert their preference is through their voice. They cannot control My hip movements and how deep I plunge that dildo into their asses. They must experience what itβs like to take whatever it is I want to give them. Control completely relinquished. I like to add to the effect by putting them face down into the pillows so the physical sensation of being fucked is heightened with the other sensations of sight and sound being muted. I also just donβt want to look at their dumb faces π ***Clip title: Penetrating My Live-In Slave***