𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗗𝗜𝗥𝗧𝗬 𝗧𝗔𝗟𝗞 Dirty talk can be overwhelming... W..
Added 2023-06-20 13:51:42 +0000 UTC𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗗𝗜𝗥𝗧𝗬 𝗧𝗔𝗟𝗞 Dirty talk can be overwhelming... What do I say? How do I say it? Am I doing this right? **How to talk about it** For the best results, set time aside to have a conversation with your partner(s) and review what you both enjoy. This should be separate from intimacy and provide plenty of time so you don't feel rushed. When talking with your partner(s), don't shy away from being specific. The more detail you provide, the more confident each of you will feel when it's time to get freaky. Lastly, be clear about your boundaries. If you're uncomfortable with something, verbalize that right away. There's nothing like the wrong type of dirty talk to kill the mood completely. **If you haven't had the chance to talk about it, here are a few tips for navigating dirty talk:** (1) Focus on praising and empowering. While overpowering and degrading dirty talk can be a lot of fun, these absolutely need enthusiastic consent. *Terms like slut and whore fall into the degradation category* (2) Ask your partner(s) for feedback during play. Example: Do you like it when I tell you how much you turn me on? Do you like hearing how obsessed I am with your body? (3) Be ready to receive feedback. If your partner doesn't respond enthusiastically or tells you they aren't into the way you're dirty talking, that's okay! Every experience is an opportunity to learn how you and your partner(s) communicate best. It doesn't mean you're a bad lover or that you shouldn't dirty talk at all. Receive their feedback and try something different.
