Yesterday I took a girl to a movie. We watched “War with Gr..

Yesterday I took a girl to a movie. We watched “War with Grandpa”. The movie was great. Definitely go see it. Lots of funny parts. This was our second date. Last week we went to lunch at a fancy place and had a great time getting aquanted. We have lots in common. Like places we have lived or traveled too. We chatted about our ENM (ethical non-monogamy) styles. How we got started in them etc. At first I wasn’t sure I would connect with her since she is my age. It’s rare when I connect with females that are as old as me. I’m 43. I know you are all wondering in your head how old I was then. I think this is because I’m so active. I don’t live the life of a 40-50 year old man. I live like I’m in my early thirties. Most women my age cannot keep up with me in bed or otherwise so we just don’t click. This one is the second one my age that I can honestly say if we weren’t both married she would be a candidate. On our first date I didn’t touch her much. Just hugged before ans after the date. That’s it. I’m very reserved on the first date. I write about this in my book too. Make sure you buy it when I release it. This date I hugged upon arrival and we touched cheeks like I think she went for a kiss that I wasn’t expecting but I played it off good. We got some popcorn and water to drink. She paid for this and I paid for the tickets. I wanted to pay but I could tell she was paying. I had paid for our first date with her being surprised I remember. I write about this in my book too. When to pay and when not to pay. In the movie I slowly touched her more and more. The seats were counterproductive for this. I figured it out tho. I first touched her shoulder and left my hand there. Soon my head was on her shoulder. Then I was just laying against her. Near the end I put my left hand on her stomach just under her breasts holding her hands. This was to give her the option to move my hand if she desires. I never put my hands somewhere I don’t know they can go. Whether it’s body language or verbal consent I don’t play the touch till she smacks my hand game. I could tell she liked this. She held my hand back and stroked my hand too. When we left I gave her a hug goodbye and have her a light kiss on her lips. Right before I drove away I sent her a message thanking her again. I always send a message after a date or experience. Stay tuned to hear about our third date coming up Monday. I’m doing my signature Limo date move. This date she might turn into a number. Right now she is still a maybe. Which brings me to a question. How do a differentiate potential partners for you readers. Do I give them a sub-number Like PD1-2-3 etc or assign a letter of the alphabet to them like A B etc. I date multiple potential play partners at a time. Let me know what you would like.