I was thinking today. Why are Americans so dead set on being..

I was thinking today. Why are Americans so dead set on being monogamous? So much hurt comes from it. Hiding. Cheating. Not being human. Humans were not born monogamous. Most of the time humans have been on earth they weren’t monogamous. King David which was one of the Bible’s favorite Kings had over 200 concubines. When the fuck did America decide to become monogamous. Oh wait. They didn’t. They did only with sexual partners. Everything in our lives isn’t monogamous except relationships. How many of you have rented a hotel room or a car. Flew instead of drove. Yeah. We aren’t faithful to the car or home we labored for and picked out for us. The house and car we put a lot of effort into making it be what we want. Then we go out and get a different one when it is convenient or we don’t have time or patience for our car/house that we chose. Why do we have to stay with that one person then. What’s the difference? Someone told us growing up we have to be faithful to our spouse or SO. I am faithful to mine and still not monogamous. So then what. Someone told us that’s the way. Since when. 1920? How many monogamous relationships are completely transparent. How many can go to their SO right now and say. Babe I would love a nice rental tonight. Some new model to stimulate my senses. Not saying how many can do that. How many of you can tell your wife or husband that without fear of what they would say or do. If you can't, your relationship is not transparent. It’s something you do that’s not all you. That’s fucking trust right there. Being able to look at a girl in Walmart and tell your wife you like the way her tits look in that top. Telling your husband you like that guy's shoulders. What’s even worse is people that aren’t monogamous have to hide it out of fear that their friends will judge them. In reality those friends are jealous that they can’t do that. Someone told them it’s not acceptable behavior. Guys ask me all the time. How do I talk to my wife about being a swinger or opening up our relationship. What kind of relationship do you have that you can’t blurt out. Honey I love you but you know what. I would like to fuck someone else once in a while. Even if she says no why can’t you say that. Why can’t you watch porn. I found out about 18 years ago I wasn’t monogamous mainly because I couldn’t help but cheat on my wife. I got pretty good at it too. I couldn’t tell her I loved her but still wanted others so I wouldn’t be so bored. I’m not the only one. America is full of cheaters. I bet if you look at the countries that aren’t monogamous they have less cheaters. They say cheaters never stop. Yeah cheaters are non-monogamous and how can you change that? It's born into them. for 8 years I was non-monogamous with my spouse. Hundreds of other girls I have been inside. Dated some of them too long term. Never have I cheated on her and our relationship is completely transparent. I can tell her anything I want without fear of what she will think or say. She can do the same thing with me. Women worry that if they give that freedom to a guy they will find a girl and leave them. Why would I leave a girl that lets me be me. She lets me have all the freedom of being single. Other women would not do that. If you have a parrot and set it free and it always comes back and feeds from you then you know it loves you more than if you have to cage it to stay with you. This is how our relationship is stronger. Neither of us are caged. We are here because we want to be not because we have to be. Every couple I talk to after their first non-monogamous experience say they got closer and more sexual after it. That’s how you get a relationship like ours. Lots of our fans are jealous of our relationship. That’s our secret. Our secret is we aren’t secret. Monogamy is the cage of society. Once we are free of it we are free to be ourselves. Free to show that we love our spouse so much that we don’t need that cage.