We don’t believe in finding “the one,” as if there is some e..

We don’t believe in finding “the one,” as if there is some elusive process or path that leads us to our “twin flame.”⁣ ⁣ Personally, we find much of the conversation about twin flames & soul mates to be a scapegoat for doing our own inner work, awaiting that magical unicorn of a person to activate us into higher consciousness without ever having to face our demons.⁣ ⁣ The truth is, relationships DO activate us…but not in the way many of us expect.⁣ ⁣ They activate old wounds. Unexplored depths of our shadow. Unresolved trauma in the body. Disowned desires. Repressed longings of the soul. None of which we’d ever get to explore and experience within partnership if we run at the first sign of conflict, pain, or discomfort.⁣ ⁣ Do you really want a “conscious relationship” where you can experience the cellular healing, DNA activations, emotional resolution, and deep intimacy? It will require your FULL fucking commitment.⁣ ⁣ This journey is not for the faint of heart. Your deepest insecurities and fears WILL be exposed. Your resolve will be tested. And the depth of your commitment will be revealed.⁣ ⁣ We often hear, “you’re so lucky!” But we are not lucky, people. We’ve BOTH committed and put in the work, first and foremost within ourselves. The “US” doesn’t work without it…as we’ve learned the hard way, especially in those defining moments when we nearly called it quits (and a couple times we DID say we quit, with full sincerity).⁣ ⁣ These are the moments we ultimately chose to recommit and go DEEPER. The moments where some of the most expansive growth happened.⁣ ⁣ In our 15 yrs of marriage, we’ve grown from wounded children seeking validation, completion, and permission from each other, to response-able beings, ruthlessly committed to their expansion as a couple and as individuals. We no longer avoid the storms; we weather them together. ⁣ ⁣ This is where the real magic, healing, and activation happens.⁣ ⁣ Ready to explore new depths with your Lover? Check out the new 25 Days of Play at lucilampe.com and get ready for oh-so-many juicy activations with your beloved.⁣ Be sure to use code OFMEMBER for 50% off! ⁣ Here’s to a beautiful new week, Wild Ones. ❤️‍🔥 ⁣ ⁣