Things have not been going well since my promotion to interi..

Things have not been going well since my promotion to interim head of HR at my company. Mimi clearly feels like she was passed over and has been cold as ice toward me ever since the announcement. But as bad as things are with her right now, they’re even worse with my husband. He’s literally flipping out over the mystery flowers that I got at the office yesterday. He’s certain that they’re from Raef, and he can’t calm himself down about it. He firmly believes that Raef would never be acting like he has been unless he knew more about our relationship than he’s letting on. My little Sherlock Holmes thinks that everything’s starting to make perfect sense now, and he’s deduced that this entire situation is the fault of Jessica and her disclosure to Sanja about my pregnancy with Connor. He suspects that Jessica probably told Sanja way more than she’s letting on. But ultimately, he says the real fault is mine for disclosing way more to Jessica about our relationship than she ever needed to know. I disagree with him on that last part, but I can obviously see his point. So, in his panicked state of mind, he thinks the invite to Raef’s two weeks ago was just one big setup, and that we were actually invited over just for Raef and Sanja to feel us out. Sanja’s bringing up the Falwells almost immediately after we got there and the incident in the kitchen all seem totally calculated now in his opinion. He’s absolutely convinced at this point that Raef and Sanja know that we have a hotwife/cuckold marriage, and it terrifies him on multiple levels. First and foremost, he hates that his gorgeous boss - who’s also been a bit of a bully toward him - now knows that his wife makes her pussy available to other men and is actively trying to access it for his own use. But he’s also terrified that the existence of our relationship might have spread even further among our circle. Unfortunately there’s nothing I can do or say at this point to ease his mind. And he’s pressing me relentlessly to stop pursuing any type of relationship with Raef. While I’m obviously sensitive to my husband’s anxiety, the reality is I know him better than he knows himself. And I know that he’s seriously overreacting to the situation. But either way, I see no need whatsoever to dial things back with Raef. The worst case scenario is that Raef and Sanja have it on good information that my husband’s a cuckold, in which case the damage is already done. In my opinion, that scenario seems almost liberating in a sense. And I have to admit, Raef pursuing me with the full awareness that I cuck my husband is a huge turn on to me. I’m going to sleep on it tonight, but I think I’m going to call Raef tomorrow morning and confront him about the flowers. I really want to know.